I had recently broken up with my boyfriend of seven months. I'm 16 years old. My friend was talking to this one boy. She asked him to set me up for a double date. I started talking to him. His name was Mike. Now, he didn't really like texting people he didn't know which was understandable but he had seen a picture of me and told me I was cute. He was also very cute. We had planned to meet up the upcoming weekend. Well two hours before hes supposed to come, he backs out. I obviously get very upset and confused. So I text him and say why didn't you come to Vicky's tonight with Craig like you were supposed too? And he said well I have to go to a game tomorrow and be up really early, sorry. Me being the good person I am, says no problem. Then I said well do you not want to hang out? And he simply said " I met another girl. I'm really sorry, I just didn't want to tell you. But I still want to be friends. Can we? That'd be great. =] "

Then hes like we'll hang out another time. Two days later, he texts me and says hes so sorry and wants to hang out again. It was horrible of him to do that etc; I forgive him. He tells me that hes looking for a long term relationship and that he is hoping it's with me. We seem to get along really well, hes funny, hes sweet, hes everything He could want right now. He says the same about me. He tells me hes reallyyyyy looking forward to meeting me and hanging out with me Friday night.

So we hang out with two of our friends who I set up, they're hitting it off completley. And I thought it was going well with us too. I didn't really know if he liked me in person, but he kept laughing and smiling towards me and stuff and he was absolutley adorable. Honestly. We were telling stories, and sitting close on the couch and everything. Then he decides to get up and move to the floor. I didn't follow him, thinking he moved away cause he didn't want to be by me to like you know lead me on. By now, he had had 2 or 3 beers. But he was still with it. So then we were all bored and we decided to go to a party.

We go, and he sits in the front of the car with his friend and I sit in back with mine. We get out, he lit a cigarette. We joked around for a bit, and he smiled at me. His smile literally lit up my night. We walk into the party, and all have a seat. We were sitting around a bonfire drinking. My friend tells him to come sit by me and he was all ahhh I don't know if she likes me. But in reality I did, and she told him that. He came and sat by me. And I kept playing around with him and his sunglasses. It honestly was going so well.

Then his friends decided to tell me about how he hooked up with this girl at the game he had went to last weekend. She was his best friends girlfriend, but they had broken up the day before. He continues to tell me she kissed him and it didn't mean anything.. he saw that I was hurt. I tell him i'm not talking to him jokingly, and he smiles and kept poking me and stuff. And he honestly was trying to make me believe him. We drove him to his grandpas house where he was spending the night to help him, and the whole car ride there he sat in the back with me, his hand on my knee, and he tried to convince me the kiss meant nothing. He said "I'm not leaving till you say you believe me!" and smiled. I told him I did. and laughed. He got out of the car and looked at me through the door with his big blue eyes and i put my hand out, he held it, and i said "I do believe you." It was a picture perfect moment.

He texted me later on saying "I'm so sorry!" He felt bad about what his friends and everyone had said. We continued on to have a conversation about us and he still wanted a relationship. His friend told me that he said he was unsure that I liked him though. I asked why? And he said because you didn't go onto the floor with him at my cousins when he did. I told him that I just thought he didn't like me, thats all.

Mike asks me to help him stop drinking, and that he still wants a long term relationship. I agree, by now I'm already far past the crush. I like him alot. To continue on, the next day he doesn't text me at all. I text him. Still no answer. His friend tells me that he does still like me and hes not answering him either. They're supposed to come over my house that night along with my friend who likes his friend. Another double thing.

All of a sudden he can't come. I get confused. He finally answers my texts after I ask his friend to tell him too. He says what. I beg him to please come over, and that it'll be worth it. He continues to say he can't and we'll hang another time. Later that night I found out by his friend Craig that he went to another girls house to hook up with her.

I was crushed and confused, honestly. I know I hadn't been given mixed signals cause he told he wanted to be with me. Then the next day I find out they're going out all of a sudden. That hurt me even more.
Right now, I haven't talked to him since Saturday night. I d

Wow!! Thats a long question!!

Forget him. This is a case of wanting his cake and eating it too. I'm sure you'll find someone to treat you right!