I'm sure I sound really immature (even though I'm in my early 20s) but when it comes to men, I'm kind of clueless. I've only had one serious relationship and it kind of happened by accident.

Anyhow, there's this guy at my job that seems kind of cool. My first day, he introduced himself and made a point to stop by my office and tell me he'd been with the company several years and if I wanted to "pick his brain" in terms of dealing with difficult, repeat clients, it was no problem.

Then we were talking in the copier room about the upcoming staff party. Even though at my office everyone refers to each other and "Mr and Mrs" he goes, "So your first name is "Jane" right? Mine is "Jack". You can call me that."

Another time, he was about to go to lunch, but my boss had an assignment for him that I had to hand carry to him and he started making faces and was angry.

I apologized and he goes, "Oh no, this face and this anger isn't for you."

Finally today, he stopped by my office and seemed surprised that another guy was in here helping me set up my phone. He goes, "I just wanted to stop and speak before i head out today."

Then one of his friends came in and started teasing him about how during the soccer games he (the friend) coaches, my co-worker just chills in the stands instead of helping out.

Is he just being friendly? Preying on me because I'm new? Interested?

It sounds to me like he likes you, maybe you should ask him if he wants to go see a movie or grab a bite sometime, if you say it like that he may not answer you right away he might just say ok sounds cool thanks, or he might say ok how about this friday or saturday night like after work? if you like him, then go for it! At least this way if you ask then you'll know weather or not he likes you by how he answers you. I dont know thou it might be hard at first to go out with someone your working with, but on the other hand he could be the guy ya just never know until you try. Give it a go! Good Luck!